Keeping Kids Safe While Juggling Carpools and Car Seats

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As summer gets closer, you may find yourself transporting additional kids to practice, the pool or just driving them home after an afternoon play date. It's especially important when you're transporting kids that you understand the type of seat that’s needed for each child based on her age and guestimated weight and height plus how to properly install each of those seats. This doesn’t just apply to babies and toddlers. Kids are in booster seats until they’re between 8 and 12 years old. … [Read more...]

Preparing Kids Hearts for Tragedies Like the Boston Bombing

As parents and nannies, it’s essential that we’re prepared to talk to our kids about tragedies like what happened today in Boston. It’s our job to reassure them, provide a safe space for them to share their feelings, ask questions, and get honest yet appropriate information. However there’s more that we can do. On days like today we have to talk to our kids about the fact that there are people in the world who purposefully hurt others. We shouldn’t have to but it’s a reality of the … [Read more...]

Missed Milestones and Autism: What’s the Connection?

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April is Autism Awareness month. Unfortunately there’s a huge need for more public awareness. Did you know: Autism now affects 1 in 88 children and 1 in 54 boys. Autism prevalence figures are growing. Autism is the fastest-growing serious developmental disability in the U.S. Autism costs a family $60,000 a year on average. Autism receives less than 5% of the research funding of many less prevalent childhood diseases. Boys are nearly five times more likely than girls to have … [Read more...]

Getting In Touch With Feelings Isn’t Just for Hippie Moms and Nannies

I talk a lot about feelings. As a mediator, naming and acknowledging a client’s feelings around the conflict is often the first step towards resolution. My Connection Centered Discipline Nanny Certification class shows nannies how to teach kids a feeling vocabulary and offers lots of tips on how to validate a child’s feelings during challenging situations. Again, that’s often the first step towards resolving the issue. Turns out that the needs of kids and adults aren’t all that … [Read more...]

Teaching Important Lessons Through Social Stories

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I love, love, love the idea of creating personalized social stories to help kids learn important life skills and lessons. I think the personalization makes a strong impact and kids enjoy being the main character in the story line. This is a quick and easy project for nannies that has a big payoff. And parents will love reading through the stores with their children too For detailed instructions and a fun example, check out the article Teaching Friendship Skills Through Social Stories from Inner … [Read more...]

Learning Games Your Charges Will Love

I’m always looking for fun ways to incorporate learning into the everyday activities I do with kids. And I love games. So this awesome list of kid-friendly games brings both things together. (This is a holiday gift list but these are great things to add to your game cabinet throughout the year.) Not only do these games teach important social skills but they also teach things like math, geography and physics. And did I mention they’re fun? The Best Learning Games: Gifts for … [Read more...]

Helping Kids Break the “It’s not my fault!” Habit

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Personal responsibility is tough. It’s so much easier to blame another person, the circumstances or anything else we can find for our bad behavior, hurtful words, or less than brilliant choices. And I’m not just talking about kids here. We all know adults who too often point to outside forces to justify and defend their actions. And let’s be honest, we’ve all been that person more times than we’d like to admit. One of our goals as parents and caregivers is to teach children to take … [Read more...]

Finding the Teachable Moments in Sibling Rivalry

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Sibling rivalry is always a hot topic. Every time I do a poll about what issues nannies find challenging, fighting between siblings is always in the top two or three listed. Today I ran across this great blog post on the subject. Not only does it feature great advice but I was excited to see the question submitted was by a nanny who is clearly doing a great job with her kids. Then I was thrilled when Lisa Sunbury of Regarding Baby, one of my favorite blogs, said she also works as a NANNY!!! … [Read more...]

What Drowning Really Looks Like

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A couple of years ago I came across an article on drowning.  Every year I repost the article because every year when I reread the opening paragraph, it gives me goose bumps. It's information everyone needs to know and even if you've read it before, it's a great reminder as we head into the summer season. I’ve seen one person drown and a handful of others be pulled out of the water either by a lifeguard or by friends. None of those people were thrashing in the water in what we think of as … [Read more...]

Forts and Hideaways for Kids

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When I was young visiting relatives, my cousins and I would spend hours dragging things from the house and barn to our secret hideaway where only kids were allowed. We were dedicated and elaborate fort builders and to this day, it’s one of my favorite activates to do with kids. The great minds at Not Just Cute put together a great resource for creating special spaces for kids. As we head into summer break, this is the perfect time to create our own forts and hideaways with the kids we … [Read more...]


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